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John,
Malaysia
I find Americans sort of bureaucratic. There is that Germanic strain
in them. But bureaucratic in a way that the English are not, for example.
And certainly Malaysians are not. There is this kind of reliance on
the written rule and the law. Of course, it's the way the country
is built. You have this constitution or, you know, if you are Protestant
you have the Bible in a particular way. And, and go by the book. Sometimes,
that's good. Written. But sometimes it's followed to a degree that
sort of stupid. |
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Xiaoxue,
China
In China, we are trying to avoid to say "no". We're trying to find
substitute for saying "no", or we trying to avoid a conflict. But
here, they are more straightforward, and they say "no" directly. So,
the first time I heard a straight forward "no", I was stunned. |
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Mia,
Finland
The American culture is a multicultural. There is people from everywhere
in the whole world. And I love that, actually. That's what I love.
Because you can meet people from, you name it. And, and it's very
nice. And bring together our thoughts, and interact with people. I
would never gotten that much of an opportunity back home. |
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Abhinand,
India
I would say American society is tolerant. Black, White, green, Black,
gay, straight, they're tolerant of anything.
I think over here there's a big emphasis on not offending people.
And, I think it's nice to be polite and it's good to courteous and
well mannered, but sometimes it can be taken to an extreme. You
know, where you can't speak what's on your mind. And, it may seem
like over here people say hi and everything, but they're only friendly
with you up to a point, you know. And, some things they just keep
hidden.
Whereas in India or something you may not say hi to everybody, but
the people who you do talk to, you talk a lot, and you're completely
honest with them. If you make a mistake and you offend them, you
just sorry and you continue, you know what I mean?
Another
difference is the emphasis over here on spending money, just spend,
spend, spend.
The third thing would be, they want things quickly. The other thing
though is at least even if they want things quickly, they try and
do a good job sometimes. In India they want things quickly and they'll
try and take shortcuts that don't work.
And,
in another difference between the Middle East and, and America is
in the Middle East everything is based on your word or your relationship
with a person. Whereas here, it's a little bit more signed contract,
you know, you sign an agreement and then you, you do it. In the
Middle East, you sign an agreement and then you talk about it, and
then you may do it or you may not. Like here's it's, you sign it
and you do it, so that's like the work ethic is better maybe over
here. |
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Stanislaw,
Bulgaria
They promote this idea of having a career and making a lot of money.
But many times what causesthose divorces are that both parents did,
they have like different paths. Their careers are not crossing each
other, and they separate, and the kids are the ones that suffer from
this, you know, but nobody realize it since the primary aim is money,
you know, having the big career. And, I think you should know where
to stop, you know, and where to spend more time with family.
So, I guess that surprised me. I realized that here. I wasn't aware
before I came here that, that this is going on, and those are the
causes for all those things.
In my country, people get married at very early age, most of the time
they're still students. But people believe and I believe, too, that
struggle is a good thing. They are poor, there are a lot of jobless,
but, and they get married and they eventually have kids, and they
go through this struggle to support a family, which unites them. So
some struggle is good. And even though they're so poor, more of them
survive as a married couple and to the end. |
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Takeyuki,
Japan
I learned from differences from Japanese culture and American culture
that you’ve got to be tough, strong. For example like if you
have a car accident, never say "sorry." That kind of stuff.
People seeing each other all the time, little thing to big thing.
It's like there's always a trap, I feel. |
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What
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Americans have no culture, no depth, no meaning, no truth, nothing more unites Americans together than the simple fact that they are all born in the same country..