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What do you think about American culture?


John, Malaysia
I find Americans sort of bureaucratic. There is that Germanic strain in them. But bureaucratic in a way that the English are not, for example. And certainly Malaysians are not. There is this kind of reliance on the written rule and the law. Of course, it's the way the country is built. You have this constitution or, you know, if you are Protestant you have the Bible in a particular way. And, and go by the book. Sometimes, that's good. Written. But sometimes it's followed to a degree that sort of stupid.
   
Xiaoxue, China
In China, we are trying to avoid to say "no". We're trying to find substitute for saying "no", or we trying to avoid a conflict. But here, they are more straightforward, and they say "no" directly. So, the first time I heard a straight forward "no", I was stunned.
   
Mia, Finland
The American culture is a multicultural. There is people from everywhere in the whole world. And I love that, actually. That's what I love. Because you can meet people from, you name it. And, and it's very nice. And bring together our thoughts, and interact with people. I would never gotten that much of an opportunity back home.
   

Abhinand, India
I would say American society is tolerant. Black, White, green, Black, gay, straight, they're tolerant of anything.

I think over here there's a big emphasis on not offending people. And, I think it's nice to be polite and it's good to courteous and well mannered, but sometimes it can be taken to an extreme. You know, where you can't speak what's on your mind. And, it may seem like over here people say hi and everything, but they're only friendly with you up to a point, you know. And, some things they just keep hidden.

Whereas in India or something you may not say hi to everybody, but the people who you do talk to, you talk a lot, and you're completely honest with them. If you make a mistake and you offend them, you just sorry and you continue, you know what I mean?

Another difference is the emphasis over here on spending money, just spend, spend, spend.

The third thing would be, they want things quickly. The other thing though is at least even if they want things quickly, they try and do a good job sometimes. In India they want things quickly and they'll try and take shortcuts that don't work.

And, in another difference between the Middle East and, and America is in the Middle East everything is based on your word or your relationship with a person. Whereas here, it's a little bit more signed contract, you know, you sign an agreement and then you, you do it. In the Middle East, you sign an agreement and then you talk about it, and then you may do it or you may not. Like here's it's, you sign it and you do it, so that's like the work ethic is better maybe over here.

   
Stanislaw, Bulgaria
They promote this idea of having a career and making a lot of money. But many times what causesthose divorces are that both parents did, they have like different paths. Their careers are not crossing each other, and they separate, and the kids are the ones that suffer from this, you know, but nobody realize it since the primary aim is money, you know, having the big career. And, I think you should know where to stop, you know, and where to spend more time with family.

So, I guess that surprised me. I realized that here. I wasn't aware before I came here that, that this is going on, and those are the causes for all those things.

In my country, people get married at very early age, most of the time they're still students. But people believe and I believe, too, that struggle is a good thing. They are poor, there are a lot of jobless, but, and they get married and they eventually have kids, and they go through this struggle to support a family, which unites them. So some struggle is good. And even though they're so poor, more of them survive as a married couple and to the end.
   
Takeyuki, Japan
I learned from differences from Japanese culture and American culture that you’ve got to be tough, strong. For example like if you have a car accident, never say "sorry." That kind of stuff. People seeing each other all the time, little thing to big thing. It's like there's always a trap, I feel.
   

What do you think?

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USA
Posted 5 days ago
I'm an asian american. I think that american culture can be define in many ways. You can't possibly judge something you've never experienced, you gotta live it. America is defined with open minded people, diversity surrounds us; not only color of skin, but who we are straight, gay. Of course we have the stereotypes that you may see all are worlds are very so same and very so different. The people of this nation are cultured by how they are raised. My family didn't raise me upon american culture even though I live here. I respect all cultures. I don't what else I could say we have farmers, city people, suburban areas, etc....We have so much diversity compared to other foreign countries, so are culture cannot be defined it one particular way, were not fat people who drive big cars and want to terrorize our land. We want peace, and some of us violence. Were humans with different mind sets!
Michele, American
Posted 108 days ago
I am an American, recently a foreign exchange student from Finland told me that she thinks Americans are fat people that just drive big vehicles. I feel that is a major over generalization. America does have a huge issue with obesity as well as pollution but there are many people such as my family that have rigorous exercise ethics and being fit and thin is very important to us. We own horses and compete on them as well as own a ranch, therefore a large truck is manditory for pulling trailers. I think that every country is going to have an opinion on another counrty because cultures are so different, but isnt that the beauty of diversity?
Jessica, America
Posted 193 days ago
I am an American and proud to be one. Most people view us as lazy and informal and to proud also stressless. I agree that we are informal. We all just live together and except one another, like a big family. There is truth that most of us are free spirited but our country was built on being the person you are. Our country evolved from many diffrent backrounds and the rest of the world does not seem to see that sometimes, we are a combination of the world. America also deals with alot of stresses and worries just like everyone else, get deep into the cities or deep in the south you will find single parents worring how to feed there own kids or trying to find a job and cant, we have people that the rest of the world forgets as well. People image U.S. as a perfect place or something, no we are not we are all equal. We have everyday struggles just like any other country, we just seem to have more resources to help us. We all depend on each other, hints thats apart of paying taxes it helps elderly and children and single parents, schools so on and so forth. Our Constitution is a foundation from men that were from other countrys.
Socrates, Athens
Posted 200 days ago
america's business is business
Americans have no culture, no depth, no meaning, no truth, nothing more unites Americans together than the simple fact that they are all born in the same country..
Bella, American
Posted 296 days ago
I was born in the US and i have many friends from other ethnic groups religions and culture background. From my understanding, most countries view us as loud obnoxious people. And I kind of agree. We are a bit loud and mayde too assertive but we do have some redeming qualities. Americans are also very informal so it seems that we have lost respect for our elders and other people. I know people think that Americans believe that we are the best. but in reality we are not, and I don't believe it although teachers have lectured to me that we are the best people in the world, but we are really equal there is no "best country". So maybe we are just a bunch of over wight pigs I don't know.
Mohana India
Posted 757 days ago
The best thing that I think of is the system. It encourages you to try your best. And it seems to me that if you have tried your best, you will get a chance. You can dream a lot and you can actually do something to reach your goal. And you will probably get it.
Jin China
Posted 869 days ago
Food proportions are really big in restaurants. Also, if you order a large drink like Coke, you can barely finish it. In my country, food proportions are much smaller.
tau south africa
Posted 875 days ago
there are many different race groups in the united states. and they all get along together. i mean it's not like where i'm from where everyone is segregated and you get the black people over here, white people over there and the other races are like grouped up along their races. what i like about here is that everyone is mixed together and you don't see a bunch of people staying within their own race group. everyone is just hanging out together.
 

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